I disappeared. I shut down. People use blogs to discuss things that are happening with them. The only thing that was happening to me was the planning and celebrating of a wedding. I didn't want to talk about it on a blog. Many people seize the opportunity and then it miraculously turns into a money maker for them and they live happily ever after. That shit doesn't happen to me.
Honestly, I didn't want to discuss it over guilt that I wasn't inviting everyone I'd ever met and so I didn't want to dangle all these stories and thoughts in front of everyone and then be like "It was fun! You didn't get to enjoy it!" Even though, in a small way, I'm doing that now.
Basically it was crazy stressful and the last thing I wanted to do was blog.
Mark and I like to think we're low key so we went for low-keyish with some traditionalism in there. We're not giant ballroom, tacky chandelier, printed carpet to hide vomit stains, servers in fake butler-wear type people. We wanted a place that allowed us to do whatever we wanted and not some cookie cutter package. I think we did well. The weather, while hot, was rainless. The caterer (after a very dreadful and painful search) was great. We have guests who are still telling us the food was awesome & her servers were crazy nice and hard working. The florist totally wowed me since my directions were pretty vague. I loved my dress and I am so depressed that I can't wear it over and over again.
In an attempt to get my blogging legs back (if I ever had them) I'll probably get a little nostalgic and add a post here and there about how it all came to be. But I'm going to try my best to be better. Now I have free time on weekends again! I hope you'll check in.
Much Love,
Me
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